Questions in topic: IMs

To start an instant message conversation, click on IM link at any user contact data (in search results etc.) and the instant message box will appear. Type your message and click Send.
If a member is online, the ONLINE highlighted message is shown at his profile in search results or in any listing on a site.
If you want to contact someone who isn't online, you can send an email or a Flirt. You must be a Subscription Member to send an email, but you can Flirt with up to 30 members a day for free. To send an email, click in the person's profile and write a note. The member will receive your email in his or her onsite Inbox along with a notification of new mail.
You can chat, see user status, IM with several users at a time.