You can search for people, browse blogs and events, join clubs, check your profile stats on who has viewed your profile and tried to contact you. You can also check Online users, use Advanced search to find people of your interests and type, see who's having birthday and congratulate them! Just be active!
Anyways, every listing of site members allows you multiple ways to contact people you like: Email, IM, Send a Poke, View profile, Rate, Call, Send a gift, add to your Friends list, join Blog friends and Club you like.
Note: you should be at least registered to be able to contact people at a site.
Any site member can contact you. When they send an email, the message goes into your inner Mailbox and we notify you at your personal email address. Your correspondence happens within local Mailbox on a site. It's done for your security.
If you're bothered we some members you can Report abuse or add a user to your Black list so all contacts for him with you will be prohibited. Just click Add to black list button for this member.
When you block a member, he or she can no longer send you emails, IMs, Pokes, Call or anything else. You can see such users in your Black list and undo the block there too. Just press Remove from Black list link from your Black list listing.
There are different types of contacts on our site and that's why most of the contacts are seen at your profile statistics section. You can check users who sent emails to you, sent you a kiss or viewed your profile.
You can also check your Hot list for your friends listings, IM alerts on your contacts while you were offline.